HOW TO WRITE AN OBITUARY

Writing an obituary is a deeply personal process that combines factual details with meaningful storytelling. It’s an opportunity to honor a loved one’s life while preserving their memory for future generations. Here’s a guide to help you craft an engaging and accurate tribute.

A death notice is brief and factual, listing essential details like the name, age, date of death, and funeral arrangements. An obituary includes these facts but expands on them to provide a fuller picture of the person’s life, character, and achievements.

When writing an obituary, you’ll want to include the following details:

• Full name (include maiden name or nicknames, if applicable)
• Age at the time of passing
• Date and place of birth
• Date and place of death
• Names of surviving relatives
• Details of the funeral service (date, time, location)
• Where the person lived

To make the obituary more personal, consider including:

• Parents’ names
• Spouse and children’s information
• Career and accomplishments
• Community involvement and impact
• Hobbies, passions, or unique interests
• Anecdotes or memories that highlight their personality

Start with the facts but don’t stop there. Reflect on the person’s character, life experiences, and values. Use specific memories and anecdotes to bring their story to life. Well-written obituaries can be inspiring, heartwarming, or even humorous, giving readers a sense of who the person truly was.

Before finalizing the obituary, review it multiple times for spelling, grammar, and factual accuracy. A polished draft ensures your loved one’s story is told clearly and respectfully.

An obituary is more than a life summary; it’s a historical record for future generations. By thoughtfully crafting your loved one’s story, you can honor their life while leaving a meaningful legacy for family and friends.

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